Kids must understand that bullying of any nature is not acceptable. Under any circumstances. Cyberbullying, or online bullying, is the deliberate use of the internet, cell phones, or other electronic devices to inflict harm against another person. This can include sending hurtful or abusive text messages, images, or videos to the victim or using social media to spread rumors or humiliate the victim.
Cyberbullying is a real and present danger to all kids. This form of abuse is growing and should not be taken lightly, as children have committed suicide due to this type of bullying.
Local and state governments have taken action to help prevent bullying and protect children. A list of laws by jurisdiction can be found here by clicking on the area on the map. This site also includes a dedicated section on cyberbullying, including:
- What is cyberbullying
- Preventing cyberbullying
- Reporting cyberbullying.
Kids often fear telling an adult about the situation as they feel ashamed and, in some cases, are scared their parents will get involved and worry about what they might do. This site has great resources for teens regarding cyberbullying and ways to keep safe.
There are no easy answers when it comes to handling cyberbullying, but there are some warning indicators that your child could be a victim. These are things to watch out for:
- Your child suddenly spends much more (or much less) time texting, gaming, or using social media websites. Any rapid change could be an indicator.
- After texting or being online, they seem withdrawn, upset, or outraged.
- Your child asks for help to shut down a social media or online account.
- They suddenly avoid formerly enjoyable social situations.
- They block a number or an email address from their account.
- Many new phone numbers, texts, or email addresses show up on your child's phone, laptop, or tablet.
- They act frustrated and impatient, or there are a growing number of incidents when they act out.
- Your child believes they are being gossiped about online or that others are using 'code words' in place of their name.
In today's world, parents must have regular discussions about the potential of cyberbullying and what their children should do if they experience it or see it happening. Tips to follow to report cyberbullying can be found here.